For those of you who had been in a relationship before or who is in a relationship now, I want to ask you how much do you understand about love? How sure were/are you that you would/will go far with that special someone?
I guess first of all, everything starts of as a crush. You get that tingly feeling inside of you whenever you are around that person. You try to make conversation but somehow you just seem to ask dry questions or some may not even dare to begin a conversation. After that, you’ll try to get the opposite sex’s attention by doing something, which at the end of the day you think back and realize that you have been a fool. Am I right? If things do go well for the both of you then from strangers to friends you will be. Soon feelings will grow blah, blah, blah and both of you get together. Each of you start saying mushy things to each other like ‘we’ll grow old together’, ‘I love you forever blah, blah, blah’. Happy ending.
Let’s say all of a sudden, the two of you break up? May it be a clean break agreed upon both side or someone just decides to dump the other. You start to grief and so does the other; few months later everything seems to be normal again.
But the main question about this topic comes after this. You somehow seem to fall in love with somebody else and the whole cycle repeats itself once again.
You get together, you break up, you get together with somebody else, you break up…
So how can you be sure that you’ve found the right one when you seem to be able to get in and out of a relationship so many times? You’ve confessed your love and affection to so many people, cycle after cycle. How can you find true love this way?
How sure are you that you’ve found the right one because both of you may just end up going separate ways in the end. That’s a question for you to ponder about if you know what I’m trying to say so far.