Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Feeling Affection More Before Than After

When you like someone and that someone likes you, eventually both of you will end up together. Going out for regular dates and spending alone time together are among the things couples do. My question is this, which part of the whole relationship do you think is the most exciting. In other words, when do you feel paling syok throughout the whole relationship?

My friend and I came to an agreement and have the same opinion. Here’s how it went. One day my friend and I were spending the night at this place called La Salle Centre. We were going to have our STPM trial exams, so we stayed there to study all throughout the night but that’s another story. Back to the main point, one night, we lepaked in the room, getting enough rest before studying. So we had a guy to guy talk. Haha! Why you girls laughing?! You girls can have girl’s talk; we guys cannot have guy’s talk izzit? So we chatted mostly about girls and relationships, if not what else? Pedicure and manicure meh? Blahx3…Then he said something like this, “you know when the best feeling is when you like someone?” Then he continued, “It’s the time before you start a relationship; the time when you’ll be guessing whether the girl likes you or vice versa.”

I totally agree with him. The paling syok moment would definitely be this phase where both individuals would be guessing whether the other likes them back or not. =D If there is chemistry, and then both persons would think of so many ways to tell the other person, both finding ways to confess to each other yet do not want to make it too obvious. Am I right?

Anyways, according to me and my friend, such feeling will be lost once you start to be in a relationship with your special someone. The feeling of being loved will not be as much as the time before you two got together. I’m not saying that the feeling is lost forever, maybe some of you couples out there can maintain that level of affection but for some it’s just hard to reach that level again. Do you understand what I’m trying to say?

If you don’t understand, then ask someone to explain it to you =P. To all those happy couples out there, I wish you all the best of luck in your relationship and to all the not so happy couples, erm, read my previous posts and figure out what’s causing your problem.

Anyway, I’m posting too many entries about relationships and love these few days. Gotta stop for awhile now. Haha! Leave comments, kay? Till next time, chao!


QuaChee said...

hoho... so true! the courting process is always so nice - tho can be hurtful if its a one way love in the end.

the start of the relationship is quite nice too - like in cloud 9!

[~*Erlina~*] said...

I dont know whether I should agree with you or not.
In my opinion,some boys really enjoy the process of courting a girl because it's just like gambling. In other words,they love to take risk. They will try their best to court a girl no matter how hard it is,after he get it,he will definitely forget about her feelings.

I really do mean SOME and not ALL,okay?

BeverLy's Secret said...

I think the most important part is enjoy the process of falling in love~~ And try to make yourself fall in love with the same person over and over again...kekeke...

p/s: I'll enjoy my San FRans trip to the fullest >.<

3POINT8 said...

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waiting for your next post to come

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